How To Make Yourself Look More Attractive And Approachable

Have you been in an environment where a large number of the opposite sex are gathered yet no one seems to be attracted to you or showed any interest in you? Then, there are behaviors you are unconsciously displaying that are making those people to stay away from you despite your good looks and great physique.

when it comes to attracting members of the opposite sex, having a pretty/handsome face and a great physique are not enough, you must have the right appearance and display the right attitudes that would make members of the opposite sex feel comfortable approaching you.

Here is a list of what you need to do if you want to make yourself attractive to members of the opposite sex that they can’t resist approaching you.

• Dress Attractively:

There is a huge difference between dressing seductively and dressing attractively. Dressing attractively simply means dressing in an outfit you are comfortable in, makes you look smart and bring out your beauty/handsomeness without exposing too much. The outfit does not have to be expensive, but it must be neat and fitting.

Don’t forget that the way you dress is the way you will be addressed. Many of us scare away from us most of the reasonable people showing interest in us by the way we dress; it is either we are dressing in ways that expose too much of our vital body parts or we are dressing in outfits we don’t feel comfortable in because we want to show off.

 The way you dress will either produce the ‘wow’ effect in others or the ‘ew’ effect. When you dress with the sole aim of showing off, you unconsciously display the type of attitudes that will make others feel reluctant to approach you.

You need to understand that the way you dress reveals much about your personality. So you must ensure that you dress more in outfits that you are comfortable in and brings out the true beauty in you because that is the only way you can produce the ‘wow’ effect in others that will make them want to come closer to  know more about you.

• Using Your Eyes The Right Way:

The kind of look you give out to those checking you out will either send the ‘I am interested message’ or the ‘go and fuck yourself message’. You eyes play a very huge part in the attraction game. How you use this vital organ to your advantage will determine how frequently members of the opposite sex get drawn to you.

When you observe someone checking you out that you also find attractive, try to catch his/her gaze and maintain the eye contact for a short period of time before looking away. The more you do that, the more you send the signal to him/her that you’re also interested and the more confidence you build in him/her to approach you.

Most of us always put on the right dressing that has been producing the ‘wow’ effect in others around us but they get scared of approaching us because our eyes are sending a different signal. The way you use your eyes play a very important role in the attraction game and if we want to build the confidence in those interested in us to approach us without fear, we must know how and when to give the right looks with our eyes.

• Having A Cheerful Outlook:

People that appear cheerful are always seen as happy people with positive attitudes to life and such people are easily approachable. The type of facial expression you put out will either attract people to you or scare people away from you. When it comes to the attraction game, a lot of us pay more attention to what we wear and our physique without paying attention to the type of signal our disposition is sending out to those showing interest in us.

Nobody wants to associate with someone that always appear moody or someone that hardly smiles. Your disposition also says a lot about your personality. Your beauty is revealed more when you smile. When you noticed someone that you’re also interested in checking you out, giving out a warm smile to him/her signals approval. You’re indirectly telling him/her that you’re available and that he/she should feel free to make the move.

You can increase the number of people attracted to you by simply putting on a cheerful look because it makes them feel comfortable coming to you.

Attracting the opposite sex takes much more than having a pretty face, a great physique or dressing slutty. You can dress in something that you’re very much comfortable in, neat and fitting and still have a lot of people showing interest in you by simply displaying the right attitudes that can get them to approach you. The game of attraction is very easy if we know what to do and the right time to do them.

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