Should Every Serious Romantic Relationship By Matured Singles Lead To Marriage?

Yes and No. Being in a relationship with someone is an avenue for you to ascertain the qualities of the person you’re with in order to determine if

both of you are compatible and can build a future with each other on the long run. Though so many matured singles go into relationships for various reasons, but the focal point of every relationship by matured singles should be marriage.

Why should any reasonable matured single person that is of marriageable age even consider being with someone he/she doesn’t see himself/herself building a life and a future with? Is that not stupidity? Considering the fact that you’ll be sharing everything, including yourselves during the course of the relationship, why would you want to do that with someone you know won’t be in your future?

I see people that are of marriageable age go into relationships with people that seem not to have even given marriage a thought and I wonder what they’re doing together. Every romantic relationship between two single matured adults should have a reasonable target both partners hope to work toward. No relationship can thrive without a defined direction. The reason why someone is in a relationship with you would determine how seriously he/she is going to treat the relationship. That is to say that, any relationship that does not have a concrete target both partners will consciously work toward will hardly stand the test of time.

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Every relationship must not lead to marriage, but every relationship by two matured singles is supposed to have marriage as its focal point. Why should every relationship not lead to marriage?

 Relationship is an avenue where you assess your partner to determine if you would want to risk you life and future with such a person. You look at those areas where you and the person have common interests and those areas where your interests differs and decide if you could live with the differences and still be happy with him or her.

 Should you discover in this stage that the differences in the person in terms of character, personality, values, beliefs, exposure, maturity, tolerance, etc. is very large and you can’t risk your life with such a person because you don’t see how you could be happy with such person under such circumstances, it is advisable you end the relationship; so as to avoid wasting your time, emotion and investment unnecessarily on something that would not yield any meaningful results.

Why every relationship is suppose to have marriage as its focal point. Relationship is an avenue for studying and assessing each other for the purpose of marriage. When you’ve been in a relationship with someone for a particular period of time and you are sure that you are ready for the responsibilities of marriage, it would do you a whole lot of good to ascertain if the person that you are in a relationship with is also ready for the responsibilities of marriage. So that you won’t end up wasting your time with someone that’s not ready.

After both of you might have discovered what you both have in common and your differences, the next step should be deciding if both of you stand a chance of building a great future and life together in a marriage union. Marriage is all about supporting and having fun with someone you deeply care about and that also cares about you all through your life time.
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it has to do with spending your life time with someone that you can live with, invest in, be satisfied with and be happy with all through your life time. It doesn’t mean that there wouldn’t be any misunderstandings or low moments, but the deep connection and understanding you both have for each other will always make you both work things out whenever such misunderstandings come up.

Yes, every relationship must not lead to marriage, but the focal point of every relationship by two matured single adults should be to ascertain the suitability of each other for a life time relationship called marriage. Entering into a committed relationship with someone that is not ready for marriage is setting yourself up for unnecessary heart aches and emotional frustration. If you know that you are not ready for commitment, marriage and everything it brings with it, then avoid being in a relationship with someone that has marriage as his/her major purpose for being in a relationship. Because to such a person, relationship is far more than catching fun and meeting your personal needs for a short period of time: it’s more of building a life of commitment and dedication with someone you fancy and can be happy with for a life time.

Don’t forget that you can know someone that isn’t ready for a committed relationship by how he/she treats you and his/her relationship with you. So be very careful of whom you give your heart to because once it is broken, you can hardly restore it to its original state.

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