How To Attract And Keep The Man Of Your Dream



Every single lady out there is looking for ways on how she can make the sort of man that she desires notice her and seek to build a lasting relationship with her
. Most of such ladies used to believe that their pretty faces and shapy figures are all that they needed in order for them to attract the type of men that they dream of but majority of them are beginning to realize that just having a pretty face and a great physique is not enough for them to have their desired partner; that there is something more that they need to do that they are yet to get their mind on.

The wise ones among such single ladies are beginning to search for that extra thing that they need to do in order for them to have their dream partner and build a lasting relationship with him. They are tired of the series of break ups that they have had and they don’t want to repeat such cycle any longer. They’re beginning to understand that most men hardly commit to a woman in a relationship unless they see something more in her than what she’s displaying outside for all to see. Thus they are willing to look for that extra thing that the sorts of men they are hoping to attract are looking for in their prospective partners.

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Yes, beauty and a great physique are advantageous and can draw any man to you, but how do you filter the serious ones from the unserious? How can you separate the ones that are truly interested in you and want to go all the way with you from the ones that just want to hit and move on? These are some of the reasons why as a single lady you need to prepare yourself and your mind for the sort of man that you’re looking for.

You need to know the sort of qualities that your dream man needs to have and have a way of distinguishing him from the crowd. Most single ladies are still single because they have been giving themselves to people that don’t worth their time while ignoring the people that truly worth their time. when you don’t have a template that you’ll you use to assess those that are showing interest in you, you’re bound to fall for the lots of deceptive folks out there that have made themselves to look like what you’re looking for in a partner.

The question now is ‘what template should you use to assess those showing interest in you for you to know the ones that are serious and the ones that are not serious?’ This is not an easy question because it has no direct answer; but there are ways you can get around this. Before you can know the sort of partner that is truly suitable for you there are some things you need to consider and pay serious attention.

Attracting the right partner and building a healthy relationship with him requires wisdom and work. Like I said earlier, just having a pretty face and a great figure is not enough. If you want to attract the right people into your life and build a healthy relationship with them, there are some concepts you need to understand. These concept are what will guide you when determining the type of partner they is suitable for you and will also help give you a means of assessing the people showing interest in you so that you can distinguish those that are truly right for you and those that are not.

Some of these concepts are given below:


  • You need to have a clear definition of what relationship is to you
  • You need to state why you want to be in a relationship
  • You need to state what you expect from your relationship
  • You need to ensure that want you expect from your relationship is realizable and can contribute in strengthening the relationship between you and your prospective partner
  • You need to state why you want what you’re expecting from your relationship
  • You need to define the type of partner that you think can give you what you expect in a relationship
  • You need to be patient and give yourself to only those that have what you’re looking for in a partner
  • You need to develop yourself for the sort of partner that you desire
  • You need to put yourself out there and be willing to take the risk
  • Finally, you need to know the role that you have to play in order to make the relationship worthwhile.

Attracting and keeping the man of your dreams requires mush more than just having a pretty face and a great physique. If you want to stand a higher chance of having the man of your dreams and reduce the chance of falling for the wrong set of people, you must be willing to do what is required of you to make your relationship life a fulfilling one. Relationship is work and it is only those that are ready to do the work that would enjoy the benefits in the end. Do you think you are ready to what is required of you to make your relationship life a fulfilling one?

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