Communication is
a very vital part of every relationship, as it is one of the key ingredients
that help in determining the success of such a relationship. But one problem
most people in romantic relationships do face a times, is how they can
understand the communication pattern of their partner – how to interpret the
words and actions of their partner at every point in time
.
Communication in most cases does not always
have to be verbal; there are times where our partners try to communicate to us
through their actions (non verbal), but we fail to decipher such actions because
we’ve programmed our minds to believe that every communication must be
verbalized in order for us to get the message
.
You should
understand that there are people that let their actions do their communication
more than their mouth; and there are others whose mouth do the communication
more than their actions. So in order to have a healthy relationship, you must
decipher which one of these communication patterns your partner uses the most.
The earlier you
understand the communication pattern of your partner, the better it’ll be for
your relationship, and it will equip you in understanding your partner even
more. Communication is very vital in any relationship and for there to be an
effective communication between both partners; they need to understand the
communication patterns of each other.
There are some
people that love raising their voice whenever they talk – not because they are
angry or scolding the other person, but it’s just their pattern of
communicating. So you need to know that of your partner in order for you to
understand their behaviors in certain situations, so as not to get slighted by
such behaviors. Observation is also a vital part of romantic relationship that
most of us over look most times. By simply observing your partner, you can
decipher how well they communicate to the people and the things around them –
this will give you a clue of their dominant communication partner.
Most of us in
romantic relationships make the mistake of resenting or trying to stay away
from our partners when they fail to verbalize to us what they are feeling. If only
we can pay a little attention to the actions they are displaying before us, we
can decipher what they are trying to say to us. Non verbal communication
pattern is very prevalent in most romantic relationships these days and until
we pay attention to our partner, we can’t understand what they are trying to
communicate to us.
Understand that two different individuals can
hardly have the same communication patterns in Toto; so you must be willing to
pay attention and listen to your partner if you want to understand the message
your partner is trying to pass across to you. Remember that there is no room
for assumption in this case. It is better you ask questions if you don’t
understand what he/she is trying to pass across to you than for you to assume
and complicate the situation. Just like I always say, ‘your relationship is in your hands and you alone can make it what you
want it to be!’
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