One Very Important Key To Having A Long Lasting Relationship

Love in its pure form is very unconditional, but human love for one another in most case always have some sets of conditions attached to it; mostly when it comes to romantic relationship

. If we don’t notice those sets of qualities we expect in our ideal partners in whoever is showing interest in us, we find it difficult to give such person our love. Different people have various definition of who their ideal partner should be. Some expect him/her to belong to a certain class or status, others expect him/her to have a certain look and physique, have a particular quality, dress in a particular way, have some particular set of possessions etc. before they can consider him/her worthy of their love. But the important question here is, ‘is your reason for loving him/her strong enough to hold your relationship together and make it stand the test of time?

The life span of most relationship is to a great extent dependent on the reasons that brought both partners together. Are the things you consider to be important for one to deserve your love so shallow that it couldn’t stand the slightest love challenges? Most times, when our relationship is challenged, it is those things that we saw in our partners that made us give them our love that will spur us to stand and fight for our love and relationship. The simple question I am going to ask you here again is, ‘is your reason for being with him/her strong enough to make you stand and fight for your love and relationship?

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There are things that are very vital for keeping great relationships and when our reasons for being with our partner is based on those things, there is nothing that can make us stop loving our partner irrespective of the situation or challenge. But, when our reason for being with him/her is selfish or not strong enough, we always hang up the towel before the battle even starts

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Good looks, great physique and money are good, but can they really hold your relationship together in the long run? People that want lasting and loving relationship with the opposite sex don’t place too much importance on things that can easily fade away but on things that can stand the test of time. If the reason you love him or her is not strong enough to make you stick your neck for him/her so as to save your relationship, then you have to think again because you have not started loving.

Our love for our partner make us do sacrificial things for them. But the extent we go in sacrificing for our partner would depend on our reasons for loving him or her. If the reason you’re with him or her is not strong enough to make you defend your relationship, then you have to think again because any little storm might just be too overwhelming for your relationship. Loving your partner for the right reasons will help your stand by him/her and always put in you the desire to always want to invest in the relationship. Do you think your reason for loving your partner is strong enough to make you stay and fight for your relationship?

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